Thursday, June 26, 2008

"The Sworn Virgins of Albania"

This was sent to me from The New York Times by Ladyfriend, and I am transfixed:

Albanian Custom Fades: Woman as Family Man

By DAN BILEFSKY

KRUJE, Albania — Pashe Keqi recalled the day nearly 60 years ago when she decided to become a man. She chopped off her long black curls, traded in her dress for her father’s baggy trousers, armed herself with a hunting rifle and vowed to forsake marriage, children and sex.

For centuries, in the closed-off and conservative society of rural northern Albania, swapping genders was considered a practical solution for a family with a shortage of men. Her father was killed in a blood feud, and there was no male heir. By custom, Ms. Keqi, now 78, took a vow of lifetime virginity. She lived as a man, the new patriarch, with all the swagger and trappings of male authority — including the obligation to avenge her father’s death...

Here's the rest.

And from the fantastic slideshow by Johan Spanner:

“Qamile Stema said she would die a virgin. Had she married, she joked, it would have been to a traditional Albanian woman. ‘I guess you could say I was partly a woman and partly a man, but of course I never did everything a man does,’ she said. ‘I liked my life as a man. I have no regrets.’”

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