Oh, Yes, She Did

One of those articles that come up on the "sent confirmation" page after you send a hotmail message is about what a woman should do to stop "intimidating" men. The Dear Abbyish lady said, well, maybe it's not an intimidation thing that's scaring off the men for this woman, but a snooty thing, which I suppose is always possible. But then the response went on to include things like:

Try to ease men into seeing the “strong” you, the “career” you.
Play down your wardrobe at first (nothing says “I am a Princess” like a fur coat!”).

Don’t “dress for success” on the first date with power suits, expensive jewelry, or flashy clothing and accessories that reinforce your monetary status.

If you live in a more expensive home than he does, don’t invite him over until your relationship is more secure. Don’t let your conversation focus heavily on your accomplishments at work. Rather, focus on mutual interests such as family, films, books or pets (not items that signify success, such as expensive vacations).

[Itals mine.]

--MSN Dating & Personals - Do I intimidate men?

Oh, blech. Is this really still necessary? I mean, should you really talk about dogs instead of your career because men can't handle it? Or should you run, leaving a trail of wavering laughter in your wake?

Today my e-mail brings news of one new baby and one new divorce among my friends. The strange thing is that the divorce is the better news among the two. A new baby with a bad husband is not promising...